Love is Patient, Love is Kind

Love is patient and kind; It is not jealous or conceited or proud;
Love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable;
Love does not keep a record of wrongs;
Love is not happy with evil, but rejoices in the truth.

Love never gives up; and its faith, hope and patience never fail.
Love is eternal.

~1 Corinthians 13

This verse is usually associated with  a  marriage or committed relationship.  I also think of this when it comes to friendships- true, genuine friendships- and how hard it is to find people who fit this definition of love.  When you find someone like this you need to hold on for dear life!

I have a friend I will call Anne*.  She has 5 children.  She's had a pretty crappy past year- youngest child- her 2 year old son- had a stroke and heart surgery, she lost some friendships that she thought were near and dear to her- only to find out that these friendships weren't genuine and only self-centered.  Nonetheless, the loss of these friendships are still difficult  and painful.  You go through a grieving process and wonder what the hell YOU did.  But when someone is a narcissist, YOU didn't do anything wrong...you were just part of the game.  The narcissist doesn't even consciously realize that they are the root of all evil!  That is probably the worst part of it- you will never get an apology; they don't even realize that they cause so much pain and aren't capable of caring.

Well Anne and I have become friends and I am so blessed to have had the chance to know her.  When I meet new people I can usually tell within a small bit of time if I will be friends with the person.  I knew pretty quickly that we could be friends- and not just because of our common ground with being burned by the same person.  We are both genuine people who can share without judgement, we can be happy for each other when milestones and good things happy, we don't expect anything from each other- just genuine compassion for the human spirit.

I saw this pendant at a shop that I frequently purchase beads from and I thought of Anne.  She loves spirals.  I wanted to make her something that would put a smile on her face.  I don't expect anything in return- just her friendship.  I wanted to thank her for being part of my life.

So, thank you, Anne for being in my circle of friends and sharing this life journey with me.  I am blessed beyond measure!

*Names have been changed to protect the innocent.  Anne will know who she is!

Fun Wrap Bracelet

I always love playing around with new techniques and ideas.  I recently came across a video on how to make wrap bracelets and I thought, "What the heck?  I can do that..."  So I tried and I was successful!  I changed up the design a little bit by using a ceramic button as a closure, but I think that this makes the bracelet a little more trendy!

I wound up using blue glass beads and rectangular shaped green jade beads...it was super easy and really cute.  Take a look at my finished product:

I didn't do to badly for my first try at this technique.  I hope you like my bracelet as much as I do!  I would love to hear what you think!

A Tribute To My Oma

In life, I believe that we encounter many people, all of whom we meet by no coincidence, but because God knows that we can learn something valuable from them. No matter what kind of influence they may have had on our lives, they still leave us a better person in the end. Evelyn Grace Schaffer is one of those people for me; My Oma! Oma, isn’t it is amazing how one word can mean so much. 

Grace, although her middle name, means ‘good will’ and 'blessings.' She has raised a family and has lived through many of the good and bad changing times of our world, therefore has unconditional love for almost everyone she comes in contact with. I don’t think I’ve ever heard her say a bad word about anyone. She has always taught me to be a good person and to respect others.   She is a good Christian in every sense of the word and a model for me to help others!

Many of my favorite childhood memories involve food in some way.  The smell of dinner fresh from the oven; the flavor of delicious home-baked goods; the joy that fills a happy kitchen.  These visceral patterns were imprinted in my mind at an early age and are still with me today.  At the center of these memories is my Oma.  Her food was just not made with love, it was love.  I remember gathering around her table on many holidays eating together as a family; her always serving the men first.  She also taught me how to make pies.  When she would have leftover dough we would make “milk pies” in little tins.  I think that part of my love for cooking comes from my Oma.  I like to put thought and love into my meals and that was learned from her.

Oma is such a hard worker and I remember helping her clean.  During my high school years I would WANT to spend my weekends with her.  I would call her and she would pick me up.  I would help her clean and then we would return to her house for a sleepover.  I would spend all weekend with her and enjoy every moment of it.  We would buy pizza crusts and make our own pizzas.  She always seemed to have little sugary boxes of cereal on hand and would let me drink coffee in the mornings.  I didn’t mind her snoring either!  I just wanted to spend time with her.  On one instance, Oma, Auntie, and I went ‘cruising’ down Main Street in Northampton and they had their babushkas on trying to embarrass me.  No such luck!  Not many high school kids did what I did, but I am grateful that we had these times together. 

Now that I've grown up, for the most part, I can reflect on the knowledge my Oma imparted to me. She encouraged me to do the right things in life. To have a family and to raise them well. She didn't just tell me these things, she showed me by example.

I like to think I inherited some of my best qualities from my Oma: my humor and to not take things to seriously, my work ethic, and most importantly my love of food and family.

Oma, I love you with all of my heart and I hope that when I am 90 years old I have the amount of Grace and love that you do!  Happy 90th Birthday!

Every Mom Deserves Something Special

As part of our MOMS Club of Coventry we are adopting a family this Christmas.  This year it's a single Mom with two young boys.  We are gathering items for the boys that the Mom can wrap and place under their tree this year.  Well, we also decided that the Mom deserves something special this year too.  I created this simple, yet elegant necklace for her.  I used brass and copper rings and created a chain maille necklace.  I also added some shimmery crystals, glass pearls, and some lampworked glass.  Here is the finished product:

If I knew the children's initials I could hand stamp them on the back of the pendant for the Mom.


I surely put some thought into this necklace and I hope that it shows.

"It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving." -Mother Teresa-


Merry Christmas to all my readers.  May the spirit of giving bring you much joy, peace, and love!

It's the Nutcracker Time of Year!!!

It's time for the 40th Anniversary Production of the Nutcracker put on by the Schuylkill ValleyRegional Dance Company.  It's going on at the Hill School Center for the Arts in Pottstown on December 3 at 7:30 p.m. and also on December 4 at 2:00 p.m.  Tickets are $20.00 for adults and Seniors/Students are $15.00.  There are discount rates for groups of 10 or more.


The Schuylkill Valley Regional Dance Company will be performing a brand "new to the area" "Nutcracker" this year to celebrate its 40th Anniversary. Two former principal dancers from the Kirov Ballet, Andrei Ustinov and Elena Martinson, will be setting choreography on the Company based on the original work by Marius Petipa (originally performed at the Kirov in 1892).


The Company performs a "Nutcracker" annually but this year there will be many changes to what people have become accustomed to in the area. For more information you can call the Company at 484-941-0683. This is a holiday tradition not to be missed.


I am helping out with some fundraising for this wonderful arts center by creating a jewelry set for their basket raffle.  Raffle tickets can be purchased at both of the productions of the show.


I created a lovely necklace/earring set...just perfect for the holidays.  It's complete with lots of sparkle.  Swarovski crystals are paired with crystal pearls and some lampworked glass.  Silver plated chain and a lobster claw clasp are used.  The earrings are hung on small kidney bean sterling silver wires.

Holidays are coming

Something shimmery, sparkly, and FUN for the holiday outfits.  Don't forget to accessorize and make a statement!

This set can be found at my Three Sister's Marketplace shoppe here.

I need your VOTES...

I entered Beadaholique's "Falling Leaves" design contest and I was chosen as one of the 10 finalists.  I need your support.  If you are on Facebook,  all you have to do is go to the following link and "like" my bracelet.  It is design number 4.

Oh yeah...pass it on to your friends, too.  Thanks for your support, faithful readers!!!